CLINICAL COUNSELLING SPECIALTY:

Unhealthy Behaviours

Caught in patterns you can’t seem to break? Whether it’s overworking, emotional eating, or shutting down, there’s a path forward and you don’t have to find it alone.

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When Coping Starts to Hurt

Unhealthy habits may start as a way to cope, but they don’t have to shape who you are.

Sometimes the ways we cope end up hurting us more than helping. Whether it’s overworking, emotional eating, shutting down, or slipping into habits you can’t seem to change—these patterns often start with a need to feel safe or in control. You’re not broken, and you’re not alone. With the right support, you can understand where these behaviours come from and begin to build healthier, more empowering ways to care for yourself.

At Lyn Firth Counselling, you’ll find a safe, non-judgmental space to explore what’s beneath the surface of your habits and patterns. Together, we’ll gently uncover what’s driving them, develop tools that truly support you, and create space for change that feels sustainable, compassionate, and real.

Change is possible, and you don’t have to do it by yourself.

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What an Unhealthy Behaviour Looks Like

Signs of an Unhealthy Behavior

Unhealthy behaviours often sneak up slowly—until suddenly, you’re wondering how things spiraled. Some common signs include:

  • Using food, alcohol, or substances to manage emotions
  • Skipping meals or binge eating
  • Ignoring physical or emotional needs
  • Feeling guilty or ashamed after certain behaviours
  • Wanting to change but feeling stuck or helpless
  • Avoiding people or activities you once enjoyed
  • Constantly feeling drained, anxious, or emotionally disconnected

If any of these resonate with you, it’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that something deeper needs care and attention—and that healing is possible.

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Understanding the Root Causes

Common Causes of Unhealthy Behaviours

Most Unhealthy behaviours don’t appear out of nowhere. They are often deeply rooted in emotional pain, past trauma, low self-esteem, or ingrained patterns from childhood or stressful life experiences. Common causes include:

Coping with unresolved trauma or grief

Sometimes unhealthy behaviours develop as a way to manage pain that feels too big to face. Even if the past feels distant, your mind and body may still be trying to protect you in ways that no longer serve you.

Managing chronic stress, anxiety, or depression

When emotional exhaustion becomes part of daily life, it’s natural to reach for anything that offers quick relief. Therapy can help you build healthier, more sustainable ways to care for yourself.

Feelings of inadequacy or shame

Deep-rooted feelings of not being “good enough” often lead to coping behaviours that offer short-term comfort but long-term pain. Healing involves replacing shame with self-compassion and reclaiming your worth.

A critical inner voice that drives self-sabotage

When your inner critic is loud, it can feel like nothing you do is ever enough. Therapy helps quiet that voice and strengthen a kinder, more encouraging relationship with yourself.

In counselling, we work together to uncover these root causes—not just treat the symptoms—so that you can create lasting, meaningful change.

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What Can Change When You Start Healing

Are Unhealthy Behaviours Holding You Back?

When unhealthy patterns go unaddressed, they can slowly shape how you see yourself, your choices, and your relationships. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. With the right support, you can move from surviving to thriving—building a life filled with more clarity, energy, connection, and confidence.
Through counselling, you can begin to experience:

  • Stronger, healthier relationships built on trust, respect, and real connection
  • More opportunities personally and professionally as you reclaim your confidence and courage
  • Better physical and emotional health by tending to your well-being with compassion
  • A fuller emotional life with joy, peace, and resilience instead of numbness or overwhelm
  • A stronger connection to yourself knowing who you are and honouring what matters most to you
  • Greater self-trust and decision-making confidence and learning to listen to your own inner wisdom

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What You Can Do to Turn Things Around

Here are several supportive steps you can take today to begin shifting your patterns and moving toward healthier behaviours:

Begin noticing your behaviours without judgment. Ask yourself: What am I feeling right before I do this? Awareness is the first step toward meaningful change.

Often we try to change out of guilt or fear (“I don’t want to be like this anymore”), but lasting change grows from positive motivation. Instead of focusing on what you want to avoid, focus on what you want to move toward—wellness, peace, connection.

Old behaviours once served a purpose—but you can learn new, healthier ways to soothe, express, and care for yourself. Counselling helps you explore what these new tools could look like, from emotional regulation to boundary setting.

Change doesn’t have to be dramatic or instant. In therapy, we work together to create achievable, step-by-step goals that reflect your pace and capacity—helping you succeed without burning out.

Counselling offers both emotional healing and practical support. Together, we’ll explore the patterns behind your behaviours with compassion, while also building real-life skills like emotional regulation, time management, and self-discipline. It’s a safe, supportive space to gain clarity, break the cycle, and move toward a more empowered, balanced life.

“I’ve lived through seasons where survival felt like the only option and I know how exhausting it can be. But I also know what it’s like to come out the other side with more clarity, calm, and self-trust. That kind of healing is possible for you too.”

– Lyn Firth, MPCC, RQS

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